Bill Withers topped the billboard charts in the summer of 1972
with his best known hit, ďLean on Me.Ē Most of us know the
song and recognize its memorable lyrics.
Sometimes in our lives
we all have pain we all have sorrow
ÖLean on me when you're not strong
and I'll be your friend I'll help you carry on
ÖPlease swallow your pride
if I have things you need to borrow
for no one can fill those of your needs
that you wonít let show
Just call on me brother when you need a hand
we all need somebody to lean on
It is an anthem for us to recognize we all need help
sometimes. Withers, however, recognized most of us have a certain
amount of pride. We donít like to lean on others. We like to be
able to claim we are independent and can handle our own problems.
The problem is we actually canít do anything on our own. Acts 17:28 says without God, we cannot even live, move or have
being. Considering that, how do we think we can possibly have
spiritual victory on our own? We do all need somebody to lean on.
That somebody is God. But what must we do to lean or rely on God?
In II Corinthians 12:7-10,
Paul talked about his own bout with weaknesses and his need for
Godís grace. He was an example of leaning on God. In that text,
I believe we find four keys to leaning on God and gaining the
victory through Him.
Recognize your personal weakness.
We face an interesting paradox in our own actions. When
most of us are asked to name our strengths, we hem and haw because
we fear we will sound arrogant and conceited. However, most of us
really think we are or should be strong enough to make it on our
own. Thus, while most of us are modest enough not to boast of our
perceived strengths, few of us realize how truly weak we are.
Paul, on the other hand, recognized his weaknesses. Further, in II Corinthians 12:7-10 he said he would be content with his
weaknesses and would even boast in them (cf. II Corinthians 12:5).
Paul could have very easily boasted in the great things
accomplished through him. He had just mentioned a man being caught
up to the third heaven and also into paradise. While he speaks as
if this is some other person, the concluding thoughts about the
need to be humbled leads me to believe he is actually speaking
somewhat tongue in cheek about himself. How easy it would be to
boast of such things. However, what good would it do to boast? In
what could he actually boast? Was it his strength that took him
into paradise or the third heaven? Of course not, it was Godís
grace. Paul could boast of the miracles he had performed and the
great signs. But again, was it his strength that accomplished
those things? Absolutely not. God had done those things with Paul
as the instrument. No vision, no miracle ever said anything about
how strong Paul was, they only said how strong God was and how
amazing He was for using someone as weak as Paul to do the work.
Therefore, Paul said, he would not be upset about his
weaknesses or even try to hide them. Rather, he would boast of
them and glory in them. He was well-pleased with them. Only when
he recognized how weak he was, could he be the tool God wanted to
use. Only by recognizing his own weakness could he actually be
made strong by Godís strength. In Philippians
4:13, he said he could do all things through the one who
strengthened him. The problem was, if he kept thinking he could do
anything by his own strength, he knew he would not accomplish
I think one of the greatest examples of this is Moses. When
he thought himself a deliverer and thought everyone would
recognize him as one (cf. Acts
7:25), he ended up fleeing in fear. However, when he saw
himself as weak and unable, making excuses of inability, then God
was able to use him to accomplish amazing things (cf. Exodus
We need to recognize our weaknesses. We need to realize how
truly unable we are to do anything. Look again at Acts
17:28. Without God we could not live. Without Him we could not
move. We walk, we talk, we get out of bed, we breath in and out.
Not a single one of us does any of that from our own strength. We
do that because of Godís strength. It doesnít seem that way to
us because of the way God has established the world, but the truth
is, without Him, we could not even do the simplest of tasks. As we
said in an earlier lesson, we must remember it is Godís air we
breath. It is Godís strength we use to move and exist. How much
more is it Godís strength we must use if we will have spiritual
victory? How much more must we recognize our own weakness if we
wish to be victorious over Satan? Consider Ephesians 3:14-21. God can do far more abundantly than all we ask or
think according to the power working in us, but we must be
strengthened by the Spirit and by Jesus Christ within us. Do you
struggle with sin? You canít beat it, but God can. Do you deal
with depression and anxiety? You canít overcome, but God can.
Do you face enemies who would discourage and bring you
down? You canít beat them, but God can. However, as long as we
rest in our own strength, thinking we can win these battles or we
can win them with just a little nudge from God, we will never lean
on Him. When we come face to face with how weak we are, then we
will completely throw ourselves over to God hoping for His
strength in us.
Acknowledge Godís grace in your life.
When Paul asked for the thorn in the flesh to be removed,
God responded that His grace was sufficient for Paul (II
Corinthians 12:9). Hand in hand with recognizing our own
weaknesses, we need to acknowledge Godís grace in our lives. In
fact, it will be only natural. When we understand how little we
actually have the power to do on our own, we canít help but
thank God for all He has done for us. Proverbs 3:6 says to acknowledge God in all our ways. The point is
that we need to see Godís hand in everything in our lives from
our living, moving and existing to our earthly successes to our
For this reason, we give thanks for the food we eat (I Timothy 4:4). We may have worked, we may have budgeted, we may
have paid. However, it is God who has continued the life cycles
that allow for food (Matthew
5:45) and it is God who has given us the ability to work,
think and plan. In any moment, God could remove those abilities
from us. We must acknowledge His grace in all our life from the
smallest to the greatest of things.
Having said that, there is another side to Godís
statement. God was telling Paul that the grace God had already
given him was all he needed. He did not need further grace.
Basically, he was telling Paul not to get distracted by the
blessings he had not received but rather focus on the blessings he
had received. Too often we get caught up in what God has not done
for us that we seem to forget all God has done for us. Ephesians
1:3-14 is a litany of the spiritual blessings we have in
Christ. What more does God owe us? Did He even owe us these
blessings? If we suffer physically as Paul did, how can we be
angry with God? He has already given us far more grace than we
deserve. We need to spend our time acknowledging the grace God has
given us instead of complaining about the grace He hasnít. God
is not obligated to remove all our thorns.
There is actually one more point that comes from this and
it leads into our next key for leaning on God.
Find Godís grace in the thorns.
We have no idea what the thorn in Paulís flesh was.
However, if he prayed three times for its removal, I can imagine
it wasnít pleasant. Perhaps it was some health problem. Maybe it
was some physical limitation. Who knows? What we do know is Paul
wanted it gone. He wasnít happy with it at first. Further, we
also know that it was actually a messenger of Satan sent to harass
him. That means it was something Satan was trying to use to cause
Paul grief and come between him and God. I think we need to
understand Satan has plans for the thorns we face. He is harassing
us. He is trying to drive a wedge between us and God. He knows he
cannot turn God away from us, but he hopes to turn us away from
God. He hopes to make us upset with God so that we will not lean
on Him. Satanís messengers are around us every day.
Paul, however, was able to see more than Satanís
messenger sent to harass him. He recognized God had a goal for
Satanís messenger. God allowed it to harass Paul, because the
very thing Satan was using to turn Paul against God, God could use
to keep Paul close. This messenger could help keep Paul from being
conceited. He needed that. With all the great things God had done
through Paul, he might be puffed up. If he became puffed up, he
could become self-centered and self-satisfied. Then he would be no
better than the Pharisee of Luke
18:11. He would be lost. If the messenger kept Paulís head
deflated, it would actually be a means of Godís grace helping
save Paul in the end.
However, the key is that Paul had to recognize the grace
God was extending him through this thorn. He had to be able to
find Godís silver lining in Satanís storm cloud. Whatever we
face in life, we need to examine what lessons they hold from God.
What thorns do you face? Do you have financial pressures, physical
illness, death of loved ones, the agony of fallen children,
trouble finding a job, back taxes weighing you down, debt burdens,
betrayal of friends and family, struggles with temptation,
depression, anxiety, enemies? The list could go on. Some of these
thorns are caused by our own actions, some not. However, in any
case, we need to examine what message or discipline God might have
for us in these things. If nothing else, each and every one of
them reminds us of our own weakness and inability to deal with all
our thorns on our own. We rarely view our difficulties as
blessings from God, but often they are. Consider James
1:2-4, which explains our trials actually produce faith and
endurance which in turn help us become complete and mature. If we
will lean on God, we need to look for Godís grace even in
Allow Godís strength to work through you.
As we conclude this look at leaning on God, we must
recognize that leaning on God is a choice. God will not force us
to lean on Him. Being able to accomplish anything by Godís
strength is also a choice. Please, do not take anything from this
lesson to mean that we simply let go and God will take over our
wills to make us work or perform great things. Paul did not simply
say, ďIím weak God, you take over and Iíll just kind of sit
in the background twiddling my thumbs.Ē No, instead, Paul said,
ďI am weak. I canít do anything on my own. So, God, Iím just
going to do what you have said.Ē Paul had to make this decision
every day. That was his point in I
Corinthians 9:27. Leaning on God was not a one-time
recognition of weakness and then God takes over. It is a daily
decision to quit relying on our own strength and ideas but to rely
on Godís will.
I have no doubt God can use us against our will. I have no
doubt at times, such as John
11:49-51, God may use even those who are not submitting to Him
to accomplish His will. If nothing else, as the great poster on
demotivators.com suggests, ďIt could be that the purpose of your
life is only to serve as a warning to others.Ē I am not denying
any of that. I am merely pointing out that if we want to be like
Moses or Paul, if we want to be able to do all things through Him
who strengthens us, if we want to be strengthened by the Spirit in
our inner being, if we want God to do far more abundantly beyond
all we ask or think by the power working in us, then it takes the
daily choice of submission to Godís will. This kind of strength
only comes when we can say with Paul that we have crucified
ourselves and the life we now live is done so by faith in Jesus
Christ (Galatians 2:20).
Only in this way do we allow Godís strength to work in us. Of
course, this takes us full circle to our first key, because we
will never do this if we do not recognize our own weakness.
As I think about the word picture of leaning on God, I
imagine a someone trying to lift themselves from a wheel chair and
walk on atrophied legs. Without someone to lean on, the task is
impossible. However, as someone provides strength, the personís
legs grow stronger and stronger. Sadly, many of us have no idea we
are in the chair. We think we are walking but have no idea our
atrophied legs are not carrying us anywhere. We need to lean on
God for support and gain strength through Him. On whose strength
are you leaning?
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